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Married cliche post and bad feeling that linger over days are something to be concerned about. Barbara, 79, put it this way:. One thing I always said, don't carry it overnight. Don't carry any argument, any difference overnight.

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Talk it over before Married cliche post go to bed. And if something that you carry over and over for several days, I think that is a big red flag for your marriage. Many of these sages about marriage learned not to hold grudges through their own experience.

Martin, 87, and New to the area single looking to mingle wife began their 65 years of marriage keeping fights going for long periods of time. Then he had a revelation:. I woke up one day after I hadn't Married cliche post to Married cliche post for a day or two and I said: I can't change it. She's done or said something that I don't agree with. But, that doesn't mean that I can't talk to her or I don't want to talk to her because of what she did.

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But that's what happened, and at 86 she's in "the happiest marriage I could ever imagine. Thinking of two very different husbands, she told me that going to bed angry is often part of a larger dysfunctional pattern:. When you wake up, first of all you may not even have a Seeking a married or attached female for a discrete relationship chat or seeking Little Mountain men night's sleep if you're both angry, you know, you'll be tossing and turning.

But then you're starting out another day on the wrong foot. If it drags onto the next day it goes onto another and another and then people find themselves entrapped that they can't change, you know?

They feel like they're in a spot where they just can't change and they've got to stick to the anger. And if the other person has the same feeling? They've gotta stick to the problem.

That's the end of that marriage. So even though you don't agree, you can say, "Well gee honey, maybe we can work something out in the morning, let's have a good night's rest and then talk about what the differences are Married cliche post see how we can come together in the middle somewhere. Life together is precious -- and uncertain. There's something that older people know Married cliche post younger people don't -- Married cliche post it's the third reason why they believe people shouldn't Married cliche post to bed angry.

Wilma, 75 opened up my understanding when she said:. Never go to bed without saying "I love you.

You've got to do it. You never know what's going to happen during the night. That statement is something elders know in their hearts, and younger people should too. The night, when we are unconscious, is an uncertain Married cliche post who knows what will happen?

Marta, 84, pointed out the uncertainty: That's not at all the elders' intention. In Beautiful couples looking casual sex Eugene, the joy that many of the oldest couples express on waking in Married cliche post morning next to a partner of decades is the flip side of this insight; each additional day together a gift.

The end of the day means the end of hostilities, the recognition that the underlying shared values and commitment to the relationship trump the need for one last dig or self-righteous justification.

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Married cliche post In part, it is because the end of the day could, of course, be the end. But much more important, in the eyes of long-married elders, is Marrieed life is simply too short for you to waste a possibly joyous morning on the hostilities of the night before. I'll Married cliche post the last word to Janet, age 92, who is still grateful for waking up next to Mark, 93, her husband of 71 years:.

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