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To you heterosexual men out there who can't yet find it in you to outwardly admit that us fatties are capable of being just as attractive as thin women, ask yourself: Why exactly that is?

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The reaction of your friends? What kind of friends are those, if they so strongly want to stop you from being happy? The bottom line is, fat women are sick of being treated like freaks, and those men who are attracted to us are sick of being treated like deviants.

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